This makes no sense, and I can’t imagine what you’re even doing hanging out on my blog if you’re the kind of tool who says “feminazi.” You can fuck off with that right now. If a guy wrote me that same message, saying a girl wouldn’t kiss him after he went down on her I WOULD’VE SAID THE EXACT SAME THING.
This doesn’t have to do with boundaries. She wasn’t asking him to fucking snowball afterward, jesus. He’s not against kissing and she wasn’t trying to force him to kiss her. If he thinks his dick/ejaculate are so disgusting that he doesn’t want it even indirectly coming near his mouth, he shouldn’t expect her to put her mouth near it either. I’m sure he didn’t force her to give a BJ, but I’m also sure that if she knew he would make her feel ashamed/gross afterward then she wouldn’t have done it in the first place. It’s probably something that should be discussed beforehand. I think in general a “don’t expect other people to do stuff you wouldn’t do” rule is appropriate. And if you decide you still want to do it, you know that it won’t be reciprocated, and/or you know what to expect after.